Why do so many girls dream of being married

I dream of having a job I can go to and love everyday, of being able to pay for my own place and car, and of being able to feel great walking around my own house in expensive lingerie that no one else gets to see except my kitty


i’m not very good at small talk, i want 2 talk about dying and aliens and sex and meaning and the sky i am terrible at asking about school and weather 

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“First of all, love is a joint experience between two persons — but the fact that it is a joint experience does not mean that it is a similar experience to the two people involved. There is the lover and the beloved, but these two come from different countries. Often the beloved is only a stimulus for all the stored-up love which had lain quiet within the lover for a long time. And somehow every lover knows this. He feels in his soul that his love is a solitary thing.

It is for this reason that most of us would rather love than be loved. Almost everyone wants to be the lover. And the curt truth is that, in a deep secret way, the state of being beloved is intolerable.”

-Carson McCullers

You passionately love Jesus, but you don’t really want to be like Him. You admire His humility, but you don’t want to be that humble. You think it’s beautiful that He washed the feet of the disciples, but that’s not exactly the direction your life is headed. You’re thankful He was spit upon and abused, but you would never let that happen to you. You praise Him for loving you enough to suffering during His whole time on earth, but you’re going to do everything within your power to make sure you enjoy your time down here. In short: You think He is a great savior, but not a great role model.
Pastor Francis Chan (via strength-dignity)

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